Expectations …!!!
After long years of hardship I have gotten to the realization that I rather keep my expectations on a lower level when it comes to people and relations and be pleasantly surprised if it gets better than I thought rather than have high expectations and be disappointed in case of failure. So I don’t keep it a secret that I do not expect much, I am very simple when it comes to relations with other people, I take things as they are, I accept what somebody can offer without judging, over thinking and I keep a simple, honest and openminded attitude. I never have preconceived ideas about someone or something.
But I guess that honesty and simplicity scares people. It can even look sarcastic , ignorant or careless to not complicate things at times. And I just think I got tired of having to defend this attitude of mine in front of people that I hold close to my heart. I realize now more than ever how it feels when you are ,let’s say “misunderstood”. Yep….I got tired!
Why people find it so hard to brake away from their past, to embrace the new, enjoy it while it lasts, and if it lasts forever…then let it last forever?. I think it is that simple….just learn from old and enjoy the new. Take life one day at a time, enjoy every single moment and be happy. Take my word for it…life is way too short to dwell on the past . It would be very sad to wake up one day and feel sorry that you missed on life, that you missed on that one moment of happiness just because you feared the new.
So…to end this…Is just not worth to defend my attitude and fight preconceived ideas about me. If you want to judge me ahead of time…if you don’t want to listen and hear…so be it. I will continue to live my life one day at a time, enjoy the sunrise every morning like it is the last I will ever see , I will enjoy my morning coffee like is the best I ever had….and I will embrace all the new things in my life with the same smile, simplicity and honesty.
And if my ramble makes any sense …hope you will at least listen to it and remember it when will be needed. If not … I still hope you enjoy these two images !!!
